I charge = I adjure. you. This and the verbs here are Masculine. It is not uncommon to find this: but when we do, we find true feminity has been lost.
roes = gazelles.
stir not up = excite not. Hebrew. 'ur (in the Hiphil).
awake = incite. Hebrew. 'ur (in the Piel) = not to rouse from sleep, but to excite the passions. See Isa_42:13. Pro_10:12.
my love = my feelings or affection (feminine)
till he = till she. It is Feminine, to agree with love, 'ahabah = love never used in the abstract, as in Son_3:10, and Son_8:4 (a person). This is an appeal to the court-ladies not to try and incite her affection for Solomon.