When Jesus ... saw her weeping, and the Jews ... weeping ... he groaned in the spirit - the tears of Mary and her friends acting sympathetically upon Jesus, and drawing forth His emotions. What a vivid and beautiful outcoming of His “real†humanity! The word here rendered “groaned†does not mean “sighed†or “grieved,†but rather “powerfully checked his emotion†- made a visible effort to restrain those tears which were ready to gush from His eyes.
and was troubled - rather, “troubled himself†(Margin); referring probably to this visible difficulty of repressing His emotions.